Have you ever looked back at your life and said I had the whole thing wrong this whole time?

Well we live in a very different generation line where many are making our older generation look like they had it wrong all the time. Some may even say this generation have it all wrong.

Either way someone has it …. wrong.

But, it may not be completly wrong. As many millemiums have shown that tradition, rules, routine and everything else of the past 10 to 20 years is no longer a part of life. Many would say this is the reason we are in a messed up planet, I will say it is the reason we are making progress and fixing some of the errors.

To be honest, humanity kinda took many things too far or too literal. We are now facing a lot of new problems that need a new mindset. Fortunately, our current generation is seeing the problems and willing to address the issues. We are really standing up for ourselves, and letting the world know. Hey, this is not right.

A lot has changed drastically in the last 10 years and it is because nothing can ever stay the same . I am hoping we are not addressing climate change situation and a lot of other issues too late.

But, there is a God and he knows our heart. So, I trust everything will fall right into place. As I am getting kinda spiritual here, on this topic the word religion in some ways more than others have changed drastically. This is a topic I do not like to discuss much or at all. But, I do have to admit a lot of changes are taking place both positively and negatively.

A lot of millemiums eyes are being opened and realizing that the traditional rules some of us have been following is causing some hovic . The older generation may say it is the reason we are facing some challenges in religion. I would say it is time to realize we are dividing ourselves with different belief systems.

Technology has really changed the game in a lot of beliefs, traditions, rules and structure. But we are humans and have the power to use this to our advantage to probably save our planet, prevent one or two wars from happening and saving the generation after us from hate,envy,jelousy,racialism and religious division.

Maybe our generation would be the ones making the changes that really needed to take place many years ago. Because if we dont step out, break the cycle, help many get out the “rat race” and beat the system. We can be looking at traditions,routine, systems controlling us and destroying us completly.

To me the last few generations was not blessed the way we are now and many held back and really went with what they knew. There was a few that really shaken up this world and made huge changes . We know them and love them. But to be honest there was not enough, in our time at least half the population is tired, fed up and want something new.

Many are going out their way to change the “norm” including myself. Because we want change not only for ourselves but for others. It is not fair to have another generation embrace half the challenges our planet is facing and about to face without knowledge, example, proper leadership and a little less burden from last generations.

It is not fair to drown our children and children children with things we was told was the way to live and never challenge any of this for the better.

Our world has changed whether we like it or not, sorry to say. It will never be the same and reminiscing on how old times was is not helping any of us with the struggles we have to face if we do not deal with the issues NOW.

Trust me when I say we have many issues, worldwide. We have to all make a effort to bring change into our lives because if we do not. We may not have anyone who would be able to live to 50 on this planet. The stress levels would be too much, murder rates around the globe will be a nightmare, climate change will destroy a continent and wars will begin all over the place over every issue raised.

Let us take what is happening now as a example, and make small steps within ourself to change and then we can begin to change those around us. I am hopeful for the future of our planet because I see hope in my generation and the next.

We had it wrong for many years and many of us want change. So, let us all make the decision to bring change into our lives step by step.

This way our children and grandchildren would watch the news and smile because they know they can walk down the street without being harassed. They can go to the mall, they can travel without fear around the globe and know their parents had a part to play in creating a changed world for the better.

Be the change you want to see from today.

Manifestation of goals is always a step by step process. At least it is for me, it is a daily process of taking small steps and decisions to reach a place in your life you know is 100% you.

These decisions can be hard at first but it is necessary to reach a goal. We all have those goals and we all have those steps in our mind we would like to see ourself reach.

I have reach a point in my life I no longer wait. The waiting game is no longer in me maybe it is because I am older now and wiser to know when to wait and when to go after it right away.

Lately I have found myself not waiting anymore and just pushing to reach that goal.

So far I can say when I look at my life I am pleased with where I am now. I am happy with the journey I have been through and I know I was prepared by my life experiences to face what is ahead.

Maybe it is something in the air but I have a strong desire for change. Maybe it is all the decluttering in my life but I have reach a point in life I no longer want to hide behind the mask I want to push for those goals and reach them without any hesiatation.

Changing my mindset, surroundings and attitude has been one of the biggest challenges and it is a day to day journey but I have learned it is worth it in the end. Each new day is the start of something new and I am always looking forward to what is next. It took a lot to reach to this point but with consistent work on myself and shedding a lot of old layers. I have reach to this point and I am still growing and shedding a lot of old patterns, ways, mindset and behaviors behind and I am loving every moment of it.

I will admit at times it is a bit sad to leave behind a lot of my old self but I know it is worth it in the end. To live the full peaceful life with love and complete hapiness.

I want this for everyone because I always believe there is more to life than just an average life that has been handed down to us by generations.

We have learned a lot from our parents and grandparents but their time have been so different to ours. We live in a new dimension of manifesting goals and dreams and anyone can come out of a ditch in life.

I believe this one, a huge thanks goes to technology and being able to connect with one another from all over the world. This is a blessing one my parents and grand parents never had, and I plan to use to my advantage and touch many lives including yours.

You should do the same as well as we all change create the life we envision for ourselves. Why is that? Because you are reading this and your conscious is telling you something.

Listen to it.

Recently, I have become a little obsessed with decluttering. I have began decluttering a lot and for some reason I have not really stopped. What I have realized this is going to be a ongoing journey , I plan to take 20 to 30 minutes a day decluttering a lot. So far it has been great a challenge by getting stuff out. The emotional attachment to things is unhealthy. I never realize how attached I am to simple things like a old pair of jeans, or sun glasses I have not wore in a year.

Which has helped me reach this phase, simplifying. I really want to simplify a lot in my life. It is so tiring dealing with a lot of things and just having less is a lot less of a headache. Do not get me wrong I love and appreciate everything I have but what I realize is the more I have the more stuff I get cluttered and the more responsibility.

More clothes leads to more things not being used or having to consider getting more space for more clothes. More make up means more time applying make up and more items on the whole leads to more and more. What I have started doing is not following trends on clothes, or just having one of a item not two mascaras, three different sets of make up sets or two or three eye liners.

This has helped me in tremendous ways, I have been feeling a lot lighter and old weight is shedding off. My decluttering journey has now began and I have seen tremendous changes already. I can think clearer and be able to have a little more space.

It is a task I plan to challenge myself with every day to see how much I can actually set aside and evaluate my usage of items.

Will keep you posted on this adventure, so look out for more.

I recently found this video and was totally amazed. The wisdom and charisma is one I would say that is quite enlightening.

From this video I have learned a few points I would like to share that can be used as daily motivation. These wise words from many and used by a motivational speaker to enlighten so many can be reflected upon daily.

1 – In the end, we only regret the chances we did not take. This is so powerful and yet very true. If we live in our comfort zone all the time we may never know what this world has to offer.

2 – Take Risks – If you win, you will be happy. If you lose, you will be wise.

3 – Don’t die wondering. – This follows in line with number two. If we do not take calculated risks we may go through our whole lives wondering what if.

4 – It is not important how long you live, it is important how you live.

5 – A pessimistic sees the difficulty in every situation. While the optimistic sees the opportunity in every difficulty. – This is a beautiful way of thinking, as the way we see things affects us.

6 – Wheather you think you can or think you can’t you are right. – Henry Ford – Whatever is the outcome of your thoughts you are right as your thought controls your reality in life.

7 – As you think, so you become. – This is the truth as your thought controls your reality and your mind holds the power that brings forth your truth after some time. You manifest what you think in your subconscious and conscious mind. You are what you think quoted by Buddha.

8 – If you don’t control your mind someone else will – John Allston. I have been told a few times, which I have seen come true, to control your emotions and mind before it controls you. This is a true yet strong statement. Everything starts with one thought.

9 – Poor thinking habits, keeps most people poor. If we think poorly of ourselves we would stay stuck in financial strain. If we judge ourselves harshly we will never grow. If we allow other people opinions hold a spot in our mind we would stay with social expectations. Poor mindsets leave us with a poor life.

Much love everyone.


Knowing others in intelligence. Knowing yourself is true wisdom. – Chapter 22 ,Tao Te Ching

Tao cannot be defined as it is the process, principle,how and what of life. It teaches us the simplicity, patience and passion of our day to day lives. This definition is not a definition but it is what I understand so far from The Book of the Way.

Tao is a philosophy that is so simple to understand, yet it is so complex because simplicity is not many way of living. Our hectic day to day lives can have many puzzled with this word and stop and look at those who practice it with a complete lost of words. I for one was caught off guard as I read and understand, it is so simple yet it is very hard to understand.

The teaches of Tao is our day to day life and how we perceive each passing moment. It is a way of life that many practice find peace, harmony and love with each moment of their awakening life. Many of us practice Tao and may not even realize as it is a practice that can be planted and change our conscious and subconscious mind and way of reacting.

Tao is a beautiful and magnificent way of living and should be practiced by all to help with our journey of our lives. Tao can be practiced by meditating and centering yourself, being still and learning to be fully aware of one surroundings.

Tao teaches us about Karma and how each action is going to have a reaction. It teaches us that each seed we plant is going to reap and we have to accept what we sow. Every moment is a blessing and we must be awake when we are receiving divine messages.

Teo teaches that life happens and events must happen in order for this world to multiply. Life must be unfolded and there is always a process in someone life in order to manifest what blessings is in store for someone.

God is beyond comprehension and no one can truly understand the God above. Good and evil is never God will, it is our perception that leads us down this way. Our decisions and actions can lead us down a evil path or a good path in this life. At times evil and good goes hand in hand as there is always going to be evil and good that will unfold in our lives.

Nature Law is God Law as the Universe and God is actually one. God doesn’t need to punish us, we punish ourselves. This is stated is chapter 50 and I was surprised with this saying, as it is so very true, we punish ourselves at times without even realizing.

All is one and everything unites so we must learn to step aside and take in each moment in our lives. Chapter one has a line that goes this way mystery of mysteries. Door to all wonder. This explains that life is a mystery and each passing moment is a door to wonder. So, we must take each moment with simplicity, passion and not so seriously.

Chapter 16 gives guidance on Taoism especially if you are new to this. This
book is brilliant and is a very simple read for all. It lays out point by point with explanations for all.

This book is a self help book that can be practiced in someone day to day awakening life and helps you question every step you take.

I understand this is a hard book to get a copy of but if you do, take a read or listen to the audio. It is one of the spiritual books I will have to read or listen a few more times again. As this book is one of the many books that opens your awareness to life, creation and the Universe.

Tao is something I practice unintentionally on a day to day but now as I have finished completed reading more on this. I am definitely going to be putting more practice into my self awareness and meditation practices.

Much love everyone.

True happiness is not found in material wealth. It is found in a deep core feeling of gratitude and pleasure in life moments. Many of us find it in unexpected moments this can be early in the morning or late at night right before we head to sleep.

This moment that is peaceful is one that is very unique and special to everyone. Pure happiness cannot always be found in material gains as it eventually fades away and get old but a special moment in the sunrise or sunset is special and always there for us.

I have found over the years that gaining more and more in life is never fulfillment but these are always moments I am at pure peace and I am happy truly happy at that moment. A lot of times this can be found in a simple walk in the park alone, nature or absorbing your alone time or special moments can bring a sense of joy and peace. True sanitary that is special for each of us.

Many find this in later years in life but I am really grateful to learn earlier than later. I know I find happiness when I can smile within and I know I radiate a joy to others so I can help others along the way. We have to be able to distinguish in life necessary pleasure and unnecessary pleasures that can be addictive and disruptive to our well being.

We have to know when we are becoming obsessive over items and know when to simple let go. This can become a beautiful moment for us that will can be a moment of hapiness. Remember a time you was obsessed over a item or idea and the moment it is no longer around or fulfilled you are no longer obsessing over it.

Practice slowly letting go of things and ideas and your life will have a different approach. One thing I have learned to keep my happiness and peace is when something happens that may upset me. I stop and take a deep breath and ask myself why am I really upset and look at the underlining answer of me.

Then I realize I had my own selfish desire at that moment. Like for instance if I am driving and someone gives me a bad drive automatically I will get a little turn off because we want everyone to drive like us. When we remove that expectation we would not be so upset and not obsess over it for the entire day.

The same goes in work, family members, neighbors, peers and random strangers. We should drop the expectations and leave it to be, it will save us a peace of mind and our happiness.

Happiness is always found in moments and it is in those small moments we find peace love and joy. I always find it in walking,jogging or spending time alone, it is a peace and stillness that no one can take away. Hope you find this as well in your own little ways in life moments.

Love and light.

What would a wise man or woman do now?

This is a question everyone should ask themselves every now and then, being a wise person means seeing everything with a clearer eye. In life we are faced with many obstacles and challenging moments but we have to stop and pause and take the time to look within. Every day is a blessing and we have to stop and check ourselves every now and then especially when we are put in some tough positions.

These are the times we have to take a step back and really ask ourselves what would a wise person do. I have found this practice has helped me with some real tough decisions especially when we have to make it in a rush. Over sometime I have seen and observe how things shift when I took the time to stop to ask myself this question and noticed a big difference. I was actually able to navigate the outcome of every decision and come up with a solution and a solid decision.

So, the next time you are put in a tricky or have to make a rush decision. Just stop and ask yourself what would a wise person do? You will see the difference in your answer and after some time practicing this trick you will notice a difference in basically everything.

Much love everyone.

Do you know Gratitude makes us joyful?  Practicing gratitude can become a daily practice.   This can take place by having a gratitude journal or saying out loud what you are grateful for, in life.  These small gestures help in extraordinary ways and open our eyes to what is happening around us.  This helps you slow down and stop to think of small blesses from the Universe. 

Whenever you are angry or in pain shift your thinking to being grateful for anything this really changes your perspective.  This shifts your thinking and you will notice your moods changes.   You will even notice small things that you can easily pass you by and help you appreciate the little things in life.

Practicing gratitude has helped me in many ways, I have seen small blessings in everything and been able to shift my thinking with time. Whenever I may see myself in a rut and can’t seem to shake myself out of a funk. Changing my thoughts to the smallest blessing brings such a joy my brain automatically changes and I always find light at the end of the tunnel.

So, when one of those daunting moments come upon you shift your thinking and think of one thing to be grateful for in life. You will see the ultimate difference in your mood and thinking pattern.

Much love everyone.

Thoughts create Reality

What you think, you can manifest towards your life. Thoughts and words go hand in hand and can bring forth your reality. They say what you say and believe is what brings forth in your day to day life. That is why you have to be so careful what you say inwardly and outwardly.

Young children thinking can be affected from a very young age. Which can have an effect on their lives with the way they see things from a young age.

There is so much violence happening around the globe and children and teenagers are involved, and many are asking themselves why. Well, the answer lies in what we let our little ones view and take in from young. What is being put in their subconscious mind from an early age?

I can tell you a lot of cartoons and movies have a lot of violence and graphical images, that are being put in a young one mind from the age of 3. Many are giving there kids video games and having them unsupervised with their internet and tv time. Some children are even more tech-savvy than their own parents which are even scarier.

Whatever they are being shown on their devices they are putting into their subconscious minds. That, unfortunately, leaves an effect on them for a lifetime.

When positive alignment is placed around someone, to view or put in their minds. They will transform their thinking to positive thoughts only and bring forth positive thinking, words, and actions. Our subconscious mind is where our deepest thoughts lie and some thoughts go way back. This leads to our conscious mind and it eventually brings forth in our day to day lives.

There is a quote from Jesus Christ which states ask and it will be given, seek and you will find, knock and the door will be opened to you.

Our thoughts go the same way with our actions, when we think of our lives and envision our future we must think positive. This is because we are asking the Universe for assistance, seek with all your mind and heart. When you are seeking for an outcome you are searching for results and when you bring positive alignment to it, you already envision a healthy outcome.

Knock and the door will be opened, always keep your thoughts on the positive side of a request or situation. This is because you have asked the Universe for assistance and it will help you, once you believe with all your heart and mind.

Your mind is a powerful tool and you need to find ways to keep it on a positive aspect. Every day find 5 positive affirmations and say it daily, this can help when negativity creeps in and it always does. You will see the difference in situations when it doesn’t go your way.

Always choose different thoughts and your actions will fall in line.

There is another saying that I have heard once or twice before by many motivational speakers. Fake it until you make it. This switches your brain to have you thinking, you have already reached your goal. The Universe will fall in align and help you align your thoughts to your belief with time.

Expect a positive outcome and it will come. Expect luck and it will come. What we determine, is what comes forth in our lives.

Take 5 minutes a day to visualize your success, breath deeply when you are doing this meditation. Close your eyes and focus on the goal being acquired. This will help when you become stressed or when negativity begins to creep inside.

Try to remember positive moments when you acquired your goal. This will help with getting the feel, taste and smell you had at the time. Use this feeling when envisioning your future goals and see how it affects your thoughts when under high pressure.

When you envision the success, it will be brought forth in your day to day life. Tell the Universe exactly what you want and leave it all in the higher force hands to deal with, you have already started your process or done your part. When you let go and not continually dwelling on it, you are putting out that you are expecting this to come forth in your favor.

Happiness is a state of mind, so always be happy. Happiness is no means to an end of problems. It is something that you mindfully let happen to you.

Winners are always happy even when their world can be tumbling down. Nothing in life is permanent and we can always change circumstances but it always begins with your thoughts, towards everything.

Never let outside influences affect you, and how you see yourself. You can control circumstances and make them into opportunities and the Universe will bless you.

Failure is never a failure, it’s another chance and a new beginning of another book or chapter.

Most importantly, always practice living in the present. You can envision the future, but you must always make happiness a habit.

Much love everyone.

We are always told to give and always give a lot of ourselves, but at times this can leave us drained with nothing left to share. Many of us end up giving a lot of ourselves and not receiving anything in return and ask ourselves why we are so drained from life.

Little do we know we have been extorting ourselves with all our love that we have non left in return for ourselves. Many of us find ourselves battling with finding balance in giving and receiving love in return because we have so much love to give. We grew up learning that we have to give to receive but we always find ourselves suffocating our own well being giving more than we could even bear. Each day we spend countless hours shedding ourselves thin and not giving ourselves the nutrients we need to full our own cup back.

It is a wonderful gift to be a healer and know you are needed by others but at times healers need to recharge. That is why the moon changes, so we can take time to heal ourselves. Healers are not put on this earth to heal everyone at times we need healing as well especially when we are always tending to everyone. Our world is in need of more healers as so many are crying out for help but I have seen healers not take any time for themselves to the point they end up needing a lot more healing than they can imagine in their life.

There is a saying before you wipe the cold out someone else eyes you should clean your own first. This can go as well for those who are involved in healing or spiritual lives, we have to take time to ensure we are align and ready to face what we have ahead and not take up other baggage without being able to hold our own. Make sure you can manage what you have to bear before jumping into another war that you know nothing about.

Giving is a selfless act that is to be taken dearly and many who give with their whole heart would not admit they feel empty at times. This is because they was thought to never expect anything in return, now while this is a good gesture, when we always give and never receive anything in return. You can lose some self respect for self as you are always having a open hand and those around you take and know it will be ok to never return a favor because of your good nature. To me this is where a line has to be drawn and self love and respect has to be taken back as you have become a stomping bag.

So when giving learn to take a step back and know you are a giving a part of yourself and not just give because it says so in the books. Know you are giving and you are also human and there is no need to feel guilty if you give once and do not want to give again. It can be because you can’t or you really have expectations. In life we have to learn to be honest with ourselves and really stop and learn to be selfish every now and then because you can actually be saving yourself from a lot of heartbreak in this life. So give but also learn to give back to yourself.

Much love everyone.